April 16th marks the 7th annual NationalHealthcare Decisions Day. Despite recent gains in public awareness of the need for advance care planning, studies show that most Americans do not have an advanced directive or living will that specifies their end-of-life wishes. According to a 2006 survey published by the Pew Research Center, 95% of Americans [...]
Death Needs a Hero
This month’s educational piece is a 15 minute video from a recent TED talk. The speaker struggled with clinging to Hope in the plight of her husband’s decline and inevitable death. It is a poignant piece and strikes to the core of all of us who work in the field of health care and particularly [...]
The Heart Month
February is American Heart Month. Cardiovascular disease is the leading cause of death in the United States; one in every three deaths is from heart disease and stroke, equal to 2,200 deaths per day. February is also the month of love. What if one of your loved ones is among those statistics that suffered a [...]
Happy 2014!
At the beginning of each New Year I notice my tendency to cling to the past. My best role models for discerning what to hold onto and what to release are Hospice patients. With precious few days left, they almost always focus on individuals who they love and bring meaning to their life. The rest [...]
How to Talk About Death
Talking about death is difficult. You worry that you’ll take away hope or burden your loved one with fear. Speaking about death may seem like a form of abandonment because it suggests you’ve given up on the lingering promise of a cure. Your own anxiety, sadness, and discomfort may make the words choke in your [...]
Waiting for Lidia
The Holiday Tree was decorated with ornaments and twinkling lights. Presents have yet to be bought and wrapped. Most children lie await each night waiting for Santa, not Lidia…she was waiting for me. It was three days before Christmas and the rush of the Holiday was at its peak. I was asked to see a [...]
Happy Thanksgiving
The Thanksgiving season is filled with hope, gratitude and reflection. We look forward to being with family and friends, reviewing the year’s achievements, and giving thanks for the abundance in our lives. It is in this spirit of hope and gratitude that I offer my heartfelt best wishes. How did the first European settlers in [...]
Halloween, Customs and Remembering
As one of the world’s oldest Holidays, Halloween is celebrated around the world in many countries. For us here in the states it is a night of dressing up and going door to door to collect treats. But for many cultures it is a period of time to acknowledge the departed, prepare for the isolation [...]
Sweet Lorraine
A friend of mine sent me this video of a 96 year old man who lost his wife of 73 years. An Illinois-based music studio, held an online contest for singer-songwriters where the Studio employees discovered this jewel. It is now an internet chart topper. Enjoy and grab a tissue. Click here to view the [...]
The Talk You Didn’t Have Could Cost You
As a Hospice nurse I have encountered many questions and concerns but none so common place as “I have no idea where mom or dad’s financial information is and how to access it.” The enclosed article provides a good overview and starting point to begin these conversations. If you haven’t had a conversation with your [...]
